After meeting several different men for coffee, she settled on one in particular and they dated for several months. In her case, after several months of successful dating, she and her boyfriend agreed to take their Match profiles down from the site. Since they were no longer “single and looking,” but single and dating, this seemed to make sense – at least to her. Checking Match a week later, however, she found her boyfriend’s profile still up and actively advertising himself as available. They are still together, although she confesses to a new wariness about his willingness to commit. Read more
